A denied long for human affection.

...Masturbation, as I have read on several Christian sites, doesn´t come alone anthropologically; because it also seeks its emotive long for human affection, the sharing of the deepest favor a human being might have sought for and -as sinful it could be viewed- it´s more than a warm moment of "nasty lust" or brief circumstantial self-indulgency: It is a huge groan to be loved, liked, wanted… to feel life it is more than a common meaningless standalone living, a thing I will not call a detached crazy living, like religious people often do (particularly, when they´re miraculously married). 

Married couples, pastors, etcetera, love to point it out as wrong -and sinful- and last week, when I heard a friend who leads a church, I was recalled of these words: read reminded me this: Mat 23:4 They tie up heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on people's shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to move them with their finger. 

Sexual abstention is not emotionally pleasing: It´s felt like a deprivation, by itself. 

Those who have their sexual mates can try to control those who do not enjoy their celibacy or living alone but, in the long run, everything depends on what you chose to live by. 

Sex has a price. Anything you´ve liked has a price (to be paid) and sometimes, a loving sexual mate is their prize, not mine. 

A.T.