jueves, noviembre 14, 2013

Reply to: "Older women and younger men"



Allow me to tell, according to my experience: I never like older women. Today youngs, both men or women, try to learn from the older ones and, in the case of women, some may call her cougars (I don´t know why) except that having younger people by sides makes you to feel younger. 

Tina Turner may call that "successful", like many others who has got what they like and, ALL are free to get the parner any could be given (GOD-GIVEN) but I can assure what I have heard from the people I have met is sordid. 

What do I have in common with a teen? 

What do I have in common with a foreigner in a remote country I cannot walk in her culture or economy? 

LOVE seems to be a need EVERYWHERE, but the commonwealth of ideas, likes, and a bunch of things do matter to make it successfully; because beauty and health may fade away. 

Older people can be ill-biased. Teens are those who risk themselves to start a new relationship at ease, and I had a forty-niner friend who married 5 times (From USA, by the way). 

Marriage has to be given by God. It´s not based on beauty, a nice roof richly kept or sex. It´s a miracle to find one and a miracle to be found. 

So I remember those words Jesus said about "the eunuch"...

What kind of friendship do you expect to find or BUILD?


A quick "made" friendship is not so. It´s not an enduring one or anything worthy to be mentioned as "friendship". I´m, for example, need no visa to visit your country to visit or meet you there, except money (as all people need) so, a real good friendship HAS A PRICE some or any has to pay.

What do YOU have to make it priceless or worthy to keep (and how I help it be)?

Both have the disadvantage of English and not having a computer normally connected to Internet. In fact, I don´t have electricity at home.

What social group will your friendship be TARGETTED? (Just a direct question) Because not many people are gregarious, but SELECTIVE, to avoid using the right word I know when you are accessing people you don´t belong, whether for culture, beliefs, social or economic status... (Just saving you the lesson I learned the hard way).

Some times people will not respond those PMs. Many BADLY dislike been said: "Hello, I am me". But you will tell me later on, if you are please.

If you seek a friendship, keep on laying those bricks of goodness, Be real and BE YOU!

On the PM you sent (to me) we can talk "privately". I can give you my P.O. Box address if you die to write down snail mails (conventional and "traditional" letters). In Venezuela they come so slow, but e-mails save BOTH time and money (I´m poor, and I don´t care you are the Queen of Russia).

He! He! (But you can see I DO CARE).

Welcome and I hope this secular guide lines serve you a bit.

God bless you!